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Dear QDaiGuy,

Why are guys confusing? I cry myself to sleep every night because I have no friend and lonely.

                                                                                    Yours truly,

                                                                                    Hopelessly Stupid

Dear Hopelessly Stupid,

That question has been asked many times by guys concerning girls. What does that mean? It means non other than just plain human beings are confusing. We have a knack of not saying what we want ad how we feel (call it insecurity if you must). Therefore, just screwing the other person over. It’s of human nature to fuck with other people, and some even do it to themselves.

            The differences in this aspect with the guys and the girls are comfortableness and time. Girls are comfortable with sharing their thoughts that it is too time consuming and unbearable for a guy to sit through. So when a girl’s implying something or asking a guy something that he is uncertain of or feel that it would take too much time, he would have you a half-ass answer or blow you off. He might feel the same way about your implication but would rather not bring it up or act upon it merely because of his comfort level being too low.

            It would be so much better for everyone if you just tell them what you want instead of fucking their minds out with your insecurity. If this response seems like it is rearing toward something else completely or too confusing for you, it’s because I’m a Fucking Guy! And its that kind of thinking about guys being too confusing that’s leaving you crying and lonely at night. So cheer up, share a smile, and don’t be a (mind) FUCKER!

                                                                        Looove,